Post by throwaway2018 on Dec 11, 2018 18:15:57 GMT
Are you disillusioned with the PRC but still living with your parents? Can't decide whether to tell your family about your newfound religious views?
Here is the advice I have shamelessly stolen from /r/Atheism's FAQ. I think it is good advice for people who are still religious but no longer agree with the PRC as many PRs are very insular and believe the PR is the only acceptable church for the Christian to attend.
Do not disclose your beliefs to your parents if you answer no to any of the following questions:
Are you legally an adult?
Are you reasonablly certain that you will be safe disclosing your beliefs? (if parents have a history of abusing you or your siblings you should probably not disclose)
Can you can sustain yourself financially if your parents kick you out of their home or are no longer willing to give you any sort of financial aid?
Can you emotionally handle if your parents go no-contact or low-contact with you in retaliation? Also consider whether you can handle having other family or friends shun you.
I know some of these things might seem extreme, but you cannot predict how your parents will handle your change in beliefs. It's absolutely unbelievable how many people disclose their new beliefs to their family and friends and end up shocked with how little understanding they are met with. People can do very, very irrational things to preserve their belief systems including causing great physical or emotional harm to people they seemingly care a great deal for.
Have you already disclosed your religious beliefs and found yourself kicked out of your home or living in a hostile situation? Here are some resources for you to help you get back on your feet.
First, check with your extended family or friends for assistance. They may be willing to help you in a way that your parents were not.
If you are a Christian and need help, I would recommend asking a local church or faith based charity for help. Many churches already have organized assistance ready for people in these situations in a way the secular community does not.
Similarly, if you have converted to another religion you may be able to find assistance with a religious institution aligned with your specific faith.
There are online networks for people who may not be able to find help as easily through religious institutions. Here are a few I was able to find.
For Atheists:
www.reddit.com/r/AtheistHavens/
For LGBT:
www.reddit.com/r/lgbtHavens/
If anyone has anything more to add, please share! Perhaps you know of a good youth shelter in your area, or a church that has a history of helping young people who find themselves in similar situations.
Source: www.reddit.com/r/atheism/wiki/comingout
Here is the advice I have shamelessly stolen from /r/Atheism's FAQ. I think it is good advice for people who are still religious but no longer agree with the PRC as many PRs are very insular and believe the PR is the only acceptable church for the Christian to attend.
Do not disclose your beliefs to your parents if you answer no to any of the following questions:
Are you legally an adult?
Are you reasonablly certain that you will be safe disclosing your beliefs? (if parents have a history of abusing you or your siblings you should probably not disclose)
Can you can sustain yourself financially if your parents kick you out of their home or are no longer willing to give you any sort of financial aid?
Can you emotionally handle if your parents go no-contact or low-contact with you in retaliation? Also consider whether you can handle having other family or friends shun you.
I know some of these things might seem extreme, but you cannot predict how your parents will handle your change in beliefs. It's absolutely unbelievable how many people disclose their new beliefs to their family and friends and end up shocked with how little understanding they are met with. People can do very, very irrational things to preserve their belief systems including causing great physical or emotional harm to people they seemingly care a great deal for.
Have you already disclosed your religious beliefs and found yourself kicked out of your home or living in a hostile situation? Here are some resources for you to help you get back on your feet.
First, check with your extended family or friends for assistance. They may be willing to help you in a way that your parents were not.
If you are a Christian and need help, I would recommend asking a local church or faith based charity for help. Many churches already have organized assistance ready for people in these situations in a way the secular community does not.
Similarly, if you have converted to another religion you may be able to find assistance with a religious institution aligned with your specific faith.
There are online networks for people who may not be able to find help as easily through religious institutions. Here are a few I was able to find.
For Atheists:
www.reddit.com/r/AtheistHavens/
For LGBT:
www.reddit.com/r/lgbtHavens/
If anyone has anything more to add, please share! Perhaps you know of a good youth shelter in your area, or a church that has a history of helping young people who find themselves in similar situations.
Source: www.reddit.com/r/atheism/wiki/comingout
