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Post by KristianWrights on Oct 15, 2015 14:21:23 GMT
I need your help guys!!
Here's the story....
My husband received 5 years ago a lot of household items from his parents (dishes, hot tub, riding law mower, snow blower, ect). He gave some of the stuff to his sister and has some of the items yet. Anyway, we got engaged and married this summer and his mom requested all the items back, because she is upset that we are married. They also have legally disinherited him from the family (I have legal written proof of this - "He is no longer considered a son of theirs").
So here's the vote.
1) Do we just give it back? 2) Do we keep it because it's been over 5 years and they don't NEED the items (they are not poor) 3) Do we make them take us to court and have a judge decide?
Would love to hear your responses. Also if you vote to give it back.... do we make them come pick up their stuff or do we place it on their front lawn. Mind you I have NEVER met his father yet (cause he thinks I'm the devil), and have only met his mother once ("Wish I could say it was nice to meet you but it's not" - was her first words to me) so they won't allow us to ring the door bell and return it. YES THEY ARE PR's so this is not shocking.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2015 15:28:25 GMT
I need your help guys!!
Here's the story....
My husband received 5 years ago a lot of household items from his parents (dishes, hot tub, riding law mower, snow blower, ect). He gave some of the stuff to his sister and has some of the items yet. Anyway, we got engaged and married this summer and his mom requested all the items back, because she is upset that we are married. They also have legally disinherited him from the family (I have legal written proof of this - "He is no longer considered a son of theirs").
So here's the vote.
1) Do we just give it back? 2) Do we keep it because it's been over 5 years and they don't NEED the items (they are not poor) 3) Do we make them take us to court and have a judge decide?
Would love to hear your responses. Also if you vote to give it back.... do we make them come pick up their stuff or do we place it on their front lawn. Mind you I have NEVER met his father yet (cause he thinks I'm the devil), and have only met his mother once ("Wish I could say it was nice to meet you but it's not" - was her first words to me) so they won't allow us to ring the door bell and return it. YES THEY ARE PR's so this is not shocking.
I'm trying to have a Christian mind while deciding but its been hard. I don't think I can write what I want to write about your husband's birth giver and sperm donor. Keep the stuff, it's his; When he accepted the items they legally become his. Make them try and legally get it back, they will lose in court To hell with their behavior. I think my blood pressure has risen by at least 40 points. S.O.A.B!!! I know they are pr, but I'm still dumbfounded by this atrocious, ignorant couple. Like a song says..."some humans ain't human". |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2015 15:31:13 GMT
I need your help guys!!
Here's the story....
My husband received 5 years ago a lot of household items from his parents (dishes, hot tub, riding law mower, snow blower, ect). He gave some of the stuff to his sister and has some of the items yet. Anyway, we got engaged and married this summer and his mom requested all the items back, because she is upset that we are married. They also have legally disinherited him from the family (I have legal written proof of this - "He is no longer considered a son of theirs").
So here's the vote.
1) Do we just give it back? 2) Do we keep it because it's been over 5 years and they don't NEED the items (they are not poor) 3) Do we make them take us to court and have a judge decide?
Would love to hear your responses. Also if you vote to give it back.... do we make them come pick up their stuff or do we place it on their front lawn. Mind you I have NEVER met his father yet (cause he thinks I'm the devil), and have only met his mother once ("Wish I could say it was nice to meet you but it's not" - was her first words to me) so they won't allow us to ring the door bell and return it. YES THEY ARE PR's so this is not shocking.
I'm trying to have a Christian mind while deciding but its been hard. I don't think I can write what I want to write about your husband's birth giver and sperm donor. Keep the stuff, it's his; When he accepted the items they legally become his. Make them try and legally get it back, they will lose in court To hell with their behavior. I think my blood pressure has risen by at least 40 points. S.O.A.B!!! I know they are pr, but I'm still dumbfounded by this atrocious, ignorant couple. Like a song says..."some humans ain't human". ...and I just realized that my acronym is not only an exclamation, but also may be a definitive statement. |
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Post by KristianWrights on Oct 15, 2015 15:39:54 GMT
I need your help guys!!
Here's the story....
My husband received 5 years ago a lot of household items from his parents (dishes, hot tub, riding law mower, snow blower, ect). He gave some of the stuff to his sister and has some of the items yet. Anyway, we got engaged and married this summer and his mom requested all the items back, because she is upset that we are married. They also have legally disinherited him from the family (I have legal written proof of this - "He is no longer considered a son of theirs").
So here's the vote.
1) Do we just give it back? 2) Do we keep it because it's been over 5 years and they don't NEED the items (they are not poor) 3) Do we make them take us to court and have a judge decide?
Would love to hear your responses. Also if you vote to give it back.... do we make them come pick up their stuff or do we place it on their front lawn. Mind you I have NEVER met his father yet (cause he thinks I'm the devil), and have only met his mother once ("Wish I could say it was nice to meet you but it's not" - was her first words to me) so they won't allow us to ring the door bell and return it. YES THEY ARE PR's so this is not shocking.
I'm trying to have a Christian mind while deciding but its been hard. I don't think I can write what I want to write about your husband's birth giver and sperm donor. Keep the stuff, it's his; When he accepted the items they legally become his. Make them try and legally get it back, they will lose in court To hell with their behavior. I think my blood pressure has risen by at least 40 points. S.O.A.B!!! I know they are pr, but I'm still dumbfounded by this atrocious, ignorant couple. Like a song says..."some humans ain't human". OH If you want I can send you the email she sent him.... She advised him that she "can order a truck to pick up the stuff." |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2015 15:54:12 GMT
I don't think I can write what I want to write about your husband's birth giver and sperm donor. Keep the stuff, it's his; When he accepted the items they legally become his. Make them try and legally get it back, they will lose in court To hell with their behavior. I think my blood pressure has risen by at least 40 points. S.O.A.B!!! I know they are pr, but I'm still dumbfounded by this atrocious, ignorant couple. Like a song says..."some humans ain't human". OH If you want I can send you the email she sent him.... She advised him that she "can order a truck to pick up the stuff." I would like to see the email. This person is clearly vindictive and full of malice, and against her own son! It seems that in her heart she has committed filicide. Disgusting. |
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Post by KristianWrights on Oct 15, 2015 15:57:55 GMT
Give it back. Put it on the curb or their driveway. They will NEVER forget that they gave him something, TRUST ME. It's something they can use as leverage--why else would she keep threatening and not do something about it? I know this mentality too well, sadly. Can I put it on the curb with a sign.... (my mom wanted her stuff back because I married a divorced woman) |
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Post by KristianWrights on Oct 15, 2015 16:11:58 GMT
Can I put it on the curb with a sign.... (my mom wanted her stuff back because I married a divorced woman) No, just drop it off and be on your merry way. I'm sure it wasn't his goal to upset her, there's no need to do that now. I was just being funny  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2015 16:58:43 GMT
I've changed my vote. After cooling off and counting to 10 one hundred times, I agree with flowerwall, give the stuff back and put it and them behind you.
This behavior is mind-boggling to me.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2015 18:54:59 GMT
Oh my, this is unbelievable. I don't think you're under any obligation to return anything. However, I think the Christ-like response would be to return the items (e.g. Luke 6:27-36). Depending on the relationship with your husband's sister, I'd be tempted to give the rest of the stuff to her and let his parents get it from her if they want. I'm not sure I'd want to keep anything that came from people like that, anyway.
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Post by cannalily on Oct 15, 2015 23:38:11 GMT
I'd give it back, but would spend no time in delivering it. If they want it, let them pick it up when it's convenient for you.
I wouldn't be malicious, but cordial. Then never ask for anything from them ever again and move on.
Life is too short for grudges.
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Post by KristianWrights on Oct 16, 2015 1:10:23 GMT
I'd give it back, but would spend no time in delivering it. If they want it, let them pick it up when it's convenient for you. I wouldn't be malicious, but cordial. Then never ask for anything from them ever again and move on. Life is too short for grudges. They refuse to stop when I'm home. And when they stop when my husband is home they badger him. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2015 1:26:32 GMT
I'd give it back, but would spend no time in delivering it. If they want it, let them pick it up when it's convenient for you. I wouldn't be malicious, but cordial. Then never ask for anything from them ever again and move on. Life is too short for grudges. They refuse to stop when I'm home. And when they stop when my husband is home they badger him. They sound pretty manipulative. It sounds like no matter what you do or how you do it, it's not going to be good enough for them. Maybe just have them pick a date/time to pick the stuff up and have it ready for them in your driveway; no need to interact. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2015 9:49:32 GMT
Kill them with kindness, pile the burning coals on their heads. Allow them to have their "stuff" back because it is just stuff. You have freedom, and you now know the gospel - you know Jesus. Be free of them and the things they will try to hang over your heads. Don't let the poison into your mind. I long ago threw away all items, communications etc. It doesn't have a place in our new life.
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Post by Skyfall on Oct 16, 2015 14:08:53 GMT
For an organization that claims to be so spiritual, it seems that they are rather materialistic. Sound familiar?
(Roman Catholic to the nth degree)
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Post by potato on Oct 17, 2015 9:30:30 GMT
There are many things that make me angry here. Partly I want to say make them take you to court because legally that stuff is very much yours. If I were in his shoes I would strongly consider telling my parents to stop being such petty pricks, but would probably take the high road at the end of the day and just give it back because it is just stuff. I would definitely make them come pick it up though, and then serve them a tasty sandwich with a tall glass of the best damn lemonade they have ever had. I would even offer a few trinkets of my own stuff that they might like because I'm no longer using it. I can think of no better way of telling them how big of @$$#×(€$ they are being than by showing them. I would definitely take this as an opportunity to force them to come to your house when you are both there. They don't have a leg to stand on so force the interaction on your own terms and then kill them with kindness.
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